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What does it mean?
When people are constantly together, hatred and love always increase; there is always a reason to love or hate more.
In plain terms
Close proximity intensifies both love and hatred.
What can you take from it?
Be aware of how proximity amplifies emotions.

Where it applies

  • family life
  • teamwork

Putting it to work

  • set healthy boundaries
  • practice empathy

Questions to consider

  • How do you manage strong emotions in close quarters?
  • When should distance be introduced?

Another view

Not all relationships follow this escalation pattern.

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