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What does it mean?
Miscommunication ruins intimate moments when affection is met with confusion.
In plain terms
Saying I love you is ruined when the other person doesn't hear it.
What can you take from it?
Ensure clear communication when expressing love.

Where it applies

  • confessing love
  • strained conversations
  • noisy environments

Putting it to work

  • confirm understanding
  • choose quiet moments

Questions to consider

  • Have you been unheard when speaking up?
  • How do you ensure you are heard?

Another view

Sometimes hearing isn't the issue.

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