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Shaw's emotional development was one with his intellectual strength. His path led him into the thick of the scrimmage, where more spontaneous natures defend themselves with the usual weapons of malice, humility, bad temper or conceit. But Shaw used the death ray of imperturbability. His feelings were never hurt, his envy never aroused, his conceit was a transparent fiction, he never quarreled.

Jacques Barzun#26

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Shaw's emotional maturity allowed him to remain calm and unbothered in conflict, avoiding the typical defensive reactions like malice or anger that others use.
In plain terms
Shaw stayed calm and unbothered when facing conflict instead of getting angry or defensive like most people do.
What can you take from it?
Emotional stability can be used as a powerful defense against conflict and negativity.

Where it applies

  • handling disputes
  • managing emotions
  • dealing with critics

Putting it to work

  • practice calmness
  • avoid reactive anger
  • build emotional resilience

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle conflict without getting angry?
  • Is calmness a sign of weakness or strength?

Another view

Maintaining perfect calm might be impossible for everyone in all situations.

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