The roles that we construct are constructed because we feel that they will help us to survive and also, of course, because they fulfill something in our personalities; and one does not, therefore, cease playing a role simply because one has begun to understand it. All roles are dangerous. The world tends to trap you in the role you play and it is always extremely hard to maintain a watchful, mocking distance between oneself as one appears to be and oneself as one actually is.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- We build roles to survive and feel fulfilled, but staying in them is dangerous.
- In plain terms
- You play roles to survive, but it is hard to stop even when you know them.
- What can you take from it?
- Avoid getting trapped in the roles you play.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do we keep playing roles?
- How do you stop playing a role?
Another view
Some roles are necessary for social harmony.
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