I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Hate persists because people fear the pain that emerges once it is gone. Holding onto hatred avoids dealing with underlying grief or loss.
- In plain terms
- People hold onto hate because it hides deeper pain.
- What can you take from it?
- Hate often masks the pain underneath.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What pain are you avoiding?
- Why do you hate?
Another view
Some hate is a justified response to oppression.
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