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What does it mean?
Hatred prevents people from truly knowing those they oppose. Emotion blocks understanding.
In plain terms
People do not understand those they hate.
What can you take from it?
Hatred blinds you to the reality of others.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • interpersonal disputes
  • social division

Putting it to work

  • pause before judging
  • seek to understand
  • reduce hostility

Questions to consider

  • Who do you misunderstand because of dislike?
  • Can you separate person from action?

Another view

Sometimes understanding is impossible regardless of intent.

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