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What does it mean?
A rejected suitor realizes his loss is humiliating because the other person knows his worth.
In plain terms
It hurts that she knows what she is giving up.
What can you take from it?
Rejection stings more when the rejector understands your value.

Where it applies

  • breakup
  • unrequited love
  • conflict

Putting it to work

  • assess relationships
  • handle rejection
  • recognize value

Questions to consider

  • Why does knowing value make rejection harder?
  • How do we handle loss?

Another view

The perspective assumes self worth is the main factor in rejection.

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