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If you have a grateful heart (which is a miracle amongst you statesmen), show it by directing the bearer to the best wine in town, and pray let not this highest point of sacred friendship be performed slightly, but go about it with all due deliberation and care, as holy priests to sacrifice, or as discreet thieves to the wary performance of burglary and shop-lifting. Let your well-discerning palate (the best judge about you) travel from cellar to cellar and then from piece to piece till it has lighted on wine fit for its noble choice and my approbation.

John, 2nd Earl of Rochester Wilmot#1

FriendshipEtiquetteGratitudeHospitality

About this quote

What does it mean?
The author urges a statesman to show gratitude by carefully selecting the best wine for a guest.
In plain terms
Show thanks by choosing the finest wine with great care.
What can you take from it?
Treat acts of gratitude with seriousness and attention to detail.

Where it applies

  • hosting guests
  • business meetings
  • formal dinners

Putting it to work

  • select quality gifts
  • pay attention to details
  • show sincere thanks

Questions to consider

  • How do small acts show gratitude?
  • What does hospitality say about character?

Another view

The tone is overly dramatic for modern simple gestures.

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