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What does it mean?
The speaker values one person so much that comparing them to others seems wrong.
In plain terms
I love one person too much to compare them.
What can you take from it?
True love avoids comparison.

Where it applies

  • rejecting competition
  • valuing partners
  • focusing on one person

Putting it to work

  • stopping comparisons
  • praising one person
  • ignoring others

Questions to consider

  • Why do we compare partners?
  • Is comparison ever useful?

Another view

Comparison sometimes helps assess relationship health.

More from John Donne

  1. Nature's lay idiot, I taught thee to love.

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  2. No spring, nor summer beauty hath such grace, As I have seen in one autumnal face.

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  3. Love built on beauty, soon as beauty, dies.

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