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What does it mean?
Loving without a proper aim is as pointless and harmful as sailing only to get sick.
In plain terms
If you do not know why you love, love will make you suffer.
What can you take from it?
Love without a true purpose leads to ruin.

Where it applies

  • reckless love
  • seeking meaning
  • romantic pursuit

Putting it to work

  • evaluating motives
  • avoiding unhealthy love

Questions to consider

  • What is the right end of love?
  • Can love exist without purpose?

Another view

It treats love mainly as a means to an end.

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