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What does it mean?
Pity changes human nature by making us desire life to be different from how it actually is.
In plain terms
Pity makes us wish life were other than it is.
What can you take from it?
Compassion can make accepting reality harder.

Where it applies

  • moral reflection
  • life challenges
  • emotional response

Putting it to work

  • balance pity with acceptance
  • reflect on emotional responses

Questions to consider

  • Does feeling pity help or hinder acceptance?
  • How does desire shape your view of life?

Another view

Pity can also motivate positive change rather than just desire.

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