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What does it mean?
The speaker suggests their comfortable relationship exists because they avoided marriage.
In plain terms
We are happy together because we were not married.
What can you take from it?
Structure matters in relationships.

Where it applies

  • long-term partnership
  • questioning marriage
  • unconventional unions

Putting it to work

  • evaluating relationship structures
  • questioning norms

Questions to consider

  • Does marriage change love?
  • What makes a relationship work?

Another view

It generalizes that marriage always ruins comfort, which is not always true.

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