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What does it mean?
Reflecting on paths not taken is often the source of deep sadness.
In plain terms
Thinking about what could have happened is sad.
What can you take from it?
Regret comes from unchosen paths.

Where it applies

  • aging
  • life review
  • missed opportunities

Putting it to work

  • accept past choices
  • focus on present
  • learn from regrets

Questions to consider

  • What path did you not take?
  • Does regret help or hinder you?

Another view

Sometimes remembering the past brings comfort not just sadness.

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