You had to be rude at least sometimes and edgy often to be credited with 'personality,' and without that accolade no one at Devon could be anyone. No one, with the exception of course of Phineas.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Social expectations pressured students to act rude or edgy to gain acceptance.
- In plain terms
- Students had to act edgy to fit in socially.
- What can you take from it?
- Social pressure shapes behavior to gain approval.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you gain social acceptance?
- What behaviors does your group value?
Another view
Not all social groups require negative behavior for acceptance.
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