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What does it mean?
The author expresses cynicism about hoping for wonderful events at parties. He compares this hope to expecting a telephone book to be a novel.
In plain terms
Expecting parties to be wonderful is like expecting a phone book to be a novel.
What can you take from it?
Manage expectations about social events.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • networking
  • personal hope

Putting it to work

  • lower expectations for parties
  • prepare for reality
  • focus on real connections

Questions to consider

  • Why do we hope for wonderful parties?
  • How do you handle social disappointments?

Another view

Parties can sometimes be wonderful.

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