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About this quote

What does it mean?
Treat everyone with charity and compassion, even those doing harm without realizing it.
In plain terms
Have compassion for everyone, even those who treat others badly.
What can you take from it?
Show compassion even to those who do wrong out of ignorance.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • social justice
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • forgive freely
  • show empathy
  • judge less

Questions to consider

  • How do you treat those who are wrong?
  • Is ignorance an excuse for harm?

Another view

Some might argue this approach risks enabling harmful behavior.

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