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What does it mean?
Marriage is often described as a hopeless or necessary situation.
In plain terms
Marriage can feel like a last resort or hard deal.
What can you take from it?
Marriage has historically been viewed with cynicism.

Where it applies

  • sociological study
  • personal reflection
  • historical context

Putting it to work

  • discussing marriage
  • analyzing social norms

Questions to consider

  • Why is marriage called desperate?
  • Is marriage a trap or a choice?

Another view

It presents a negative view not shared by all spouses.

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