Maybe that's the reason,' Adam said slowly, feeling his way. 'Maybe if I had loved him I would have been jealous of him. You were. Maybe-maybe love makes you suspicious and doubting. Is it true that when you love a woman you are never sure-never sure of her because you aren't sure of yourself? I can see it pretty clearly. I can see how you loved him and what it did to you. I did not love him. Maybe he loved me. He tested me and hurt me and punished me and finally he sent me out like a sacrifice, maybe to make up for something. But he did not love you, and so he had faith in you. Maybe - why, maybe it's a kind of reverse.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love can cause jealousy and suspicion, while lack of love can lead to trust.
- In plain terms
- Love makes you jealous and suspicious, but not loving can make you trusted.
- What can you take from it?
- Love brings doubt; sometimes not loving brings faith.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does love always bring insecurity?
- Can trust exist without love?
Another view
It simplifies complex feelings into a binary of love and suspicion.
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