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What does it mean?
The writer delays communication due to a deep emotional aversion to the act of writing.
In plain terms
Someone waited to write because the act feels dangerous.
What can you take from it?
Avoidance signals deep emotional pain.

Where it applies

  • reconciliation
  • confession
  • grief

Putting it to work

  • face the pain
  • seek support
  • take action

Questions to consider

  • What stops you from writing?
  • What does the letter hold?

Another view

Avoidance might protect against immediate pain.

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