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What does it mean?
Accept more faults in others as you age and demand more from yourself.
In plain terms
Be easier on others and harder on yourself.
What can you take from it?
Increase empathy and self-accountability.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal conflict
  • parenting
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • practice patience
  • self-reflect
  • lower judgment

Questions to consider

  • How do you treat your flaws?
  • What makes judgment fair?

Another view

Some actions require accountability rather than tolerance.

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