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What does it mean?
Denying selfish desires leads to finding what your heart truly needs; true desires align with God's will.
In plain terms
Say no to your wants to find what you really need.
What can you take from it?
Denial of selfish wants reveals true fulfillment.

Where it applies

  • facing temptation
  • seeking life purpose
  • spiritual discipline

Putting it to work

  • fasting
  • voluntary poverty
  • self-examination

Questions to consider

  • Which desire do you need to question?
  • How do you distinguish need from want?

Another view

Healthy desires should not always be denied.

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