Resolved, never to speak evil of anyone, so that it shall tend to his dishonor, more or less, upon no account except for some real good.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Edwards resolves to avoid speaking ill of others unless it is necessary to protect them from real harm.
- In plain terms
- Do not criticize others unless it helps them.
- What can you take from it?
- Reserve criticism for constructive purposes only.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When is criticism helpful?
- How do you handle gossip?
Another view
Defining real good can be subjective and lead to misuse.
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