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About this quote

What does it mean?
The author experienced a traumatic event in Cambridge in 1969 and chose not to write about it immediately. He needed to forget the memory to preserve his sanity.
In plain terms
He did not write down a painful event right away because forgetting it was necessary for his mental health.
What can you take from it?
Sometimes forgetting a painful experience is necessary to maintain one's mental stability.

Where it applies

  • after a shocking event
  • during grief
  • processing pain

Putting it to work

  • journaling therapy
  • coping with shock
  • mental preservation

Questions to consider

  • When is forgetting more useful than remembering?
  • How do we protect our sanity from pain?

Another view

Suppressing memories can sometimes lead to unresolved trauma surfacing later.

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