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What does it mean?
Deep love inherently involves significant suffering because attachment brings vulnerability.
In plain terms
Loving a lot means you will suffer a lot.
What can you take from it?
Love demands the capacity to endure pain.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • grief
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • emotional resilience
  • relationship counseling
  • artistic expression

Questions to consider

  • Why does love involve suffering?
  • Is suffering proof of love?

Another view

Some forms of love may not require suffering to be meaningful.

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