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What does it mean?
Adult life brings burdens that make childhood seem preferable.
In plain terms
Growing up is hard so being young is better.
What can you take from it?
Maturity often feels like a loss of freedom.

Where it applies

  • midlife crisis
  • parenting

Putting it to work

  • reflect on growing up
  • value simplicity

Questions to consider

  • What do you lose growing up?
  • Is childhood safer?

Another view

It ignores the freedoms adulthood provides.

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