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About this quote

What does it mean?
Children learn more from examples than from criticism.
In plain terms
Show children good behavior instead of just criticizing bad behavior.
What can you take from it?
Lead by example rather than pointing out faults.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • teaching
  • mentoring

Putting it to work

  • model behavior
  • focus on positive examples

Questions to consider

  • How do you teach without criticizing?
  • What works better, models or critics?

Another view

Criticism may still be necessary in some educational contexts.

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