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What does it mean?
Seek gentle solutions that undo problems rather than cutting them away.
In plain terms
Try to untie problems instead of cutting them.
What can you take from it?
Prefer reversible solutions over permanent ones.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • decision making
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • negotiate instead of sever
  • choose reversible actions

Questions to consider

  • Is there a gentler way to solve this?
  • What can I undo if I change my mind?

Another view

Some situations require swift, permanent cuts.

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