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It is often asserted that discussion is only possible between people who have a common language and accept common basic assumptions. I think that this is a mistake. All that is needed is a readiness to learn from one's partner in the discussion, which includes a genuine wish to understand what he intends to say. If this readiness is there, the discussion will be the more fruitful the more the partner's backgrounds differ.

Karl Popper#41

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Productive discussion needs willingness to learn, not shared language or assumptions.
In plain terms
You don't need to agree to have a good discussion.
What can you take from it?
Enter discussions ready to learn from differences.

Where it applies

  • cross-cultural talks
  • negotiations
  • family disputes

Putting it to work

  • ask questions
  • listen actively
  • seek understanding

Questions to consider

  • Are you ready to learn or just to win?
  • How can you understand someone with different background?

Another view

Some differences may be too deep to bridge through discussion alone.

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