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What does it mean?
The speaker claims a lack of pain while inviting others to test and negotiate their relationship.
In plain terms
I say I am not hurt but ask if you want to know.
What can you take from it?
Question who feels pain in relationships.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • testing trust
  • emotional negotiation

Putting it to work

  • check feelings
  • communicate pain
  • negotiate terms

Questions to consider

  • Do you believe I am not hurt?
  • What deal are we making?

Another view

Claiming no pain can be a defense mechanism.

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