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What does it mean?
A phrase used to acknowledge death or tragedy without offering false comfort.
In plain terms
It is just a way to say something bad happened and move on.
What can you take from it?
Acceptance of fate can be expressed with minimal words.

Where it applies

  • reacting to bad news
  • discussing war
  • narrative closure

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge loss
  • avoid platitudes
  • accept reality

Questions to consider

  • How do you acknowledge tragedy?
  • Is resignation better than hope?

Another view

It can seem indifferent to suffering if used too casually.

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