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'Last year (October 2004), the nation celebrated a week of reconciliation and forgiveness, supported by all our main religions and numerous civic organizations and individuals from all our ethnic groups. Some of those who had suffered particular hurt in 2000, questioned the motives behind this and did not feel they could take part. Their views must be respected. They endured an ordeal which left deep wounds.'

Laisenia Qarase#8

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About this quote

What does it mean?
A 2004 reconciliation week was inclusive, but some victims felt excluded and their pain must be respected.
In plain terms
Reconciliation efforts should respect those still hurt by past events.
What can you take from it?
Acknowledge and respect lingering wounds during reconciliation.

Where it applies

  • post‑conflict healing
  • community ceremonies

Putting it to work

  • provide trauma counseling
  • include victim voices in planning

Questions to consider

  • How can reconciliation be made genuinely inclusive?
  • What support do victims need to heal?

Another view

Reconciliation can feel superficial if not all parties feel heard.

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