I smiled at him but knew it did not reach my eyes. I smiled because he smiled at me, more reflex than emotion. Inside I was nothing. It was a little like being in shock. Shock is nature's insulation, the thing that shuts you down so you can heal, or sometimes so you can die without hurting, or being afraid...
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker describes emotional detachment and reflexive smiling as a defense mechanism.
- In plain terms
- Smiling without feeling it is a way to protect yourself.
- What can you take from it?
- Emotional numbness is a shield.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is numbness helpful or harmful?
- When does protection become isolation?
Another view
It suggests healing may require shutting down fully.
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