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What does it mean?
Denial is a coping mechanism where one hopes problems vanish by ignoring them.
In plain terms
If you pretend hard enough, the problem might disappear.
What can you take from it?
Ignoring issues rarely makes them go away.

Where it applies

  • conflict avoidance
  • personal issues
  • stress management

Putting it to work

  • confronting reality
  • addressing problems
  • seeking support

Questions to consider

  • What do you pretend does not exist?

Another view

Sometimes temporary denial buys time for necessary preparation.

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