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What does it mean?
Sterne says only the brave can truly forgive; a coward lacks that capacity.
In plain terms
Forgiveness requires courage; cowards cannot forgive.
What can you take from it?
Cultivate bravery to practice forgiveness.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth
  • relationship repair

Putting it to work

  • confront grievances
  • practice empathy
  • choose forgiveness over resentment

Questions to consider

  • When is forgiveness a sign of weakness?
  • How does bravery enable forgiveness?

Another view

Sometimes forgiveness is unsafe or unhealthy.

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