My father was as proud of his eloquence as MARCUS TULLIUS CICERO could be for his life, and and for aught I am convinced of to the contrary at present, with as much reason: it was indeed his strength - and his weakness, too. - His strength - for he was by nature eloquent - and his weakness - for he was hourly a dupe to it; and provided an occasion in life would but permit him to shew his talents, or say either a wise thing, a witty, or a shrewd one - (bating the case of a systematic misfortune)- he had all he wanted.- A blessing which tied up my father's tongue, and a misfortune which let it loose with a good grace, were pretty equal: sometimes, indeed, the misfortune was the better of the two; for instance, where the pleasure of the harangue was as ten, and the pain of the misfortune was as five - my father gained half in half, and consequently was as well again off, as if it had never befallen him.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- My father's pride in his eloquence was both his strength and his downfall; sometimes misfortune gave him a chance to speak wisely, balancing his pride.
- In plain terms
- His love of speaking made him strong but also a fool; misfortune sometimes helped him use it well.
- What can you take from it?
- Pride in a talent can be a double‑edged sword; setbacks can provide balance.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When has your pride helped you? When has it hurt you?
Another view
Not all misfortunes lead to growth; some can damage confidence.
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