We get forwards in the world not so much by doing services, as receiving them: you take a withering twig, and put it in the ground; and then you water it, because you have planted it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- We advance in life more by accepting help from others than by helping them. The act of receiving creates a connection similar to nurturing a plant after planting it.
- In plain terms
- We progress more by receiving help than giving it.
- What can you take from it?
- Accepting help from others is a key part of moving forward.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you feel when someone helps you?
- Do you hesitate to accept help?
Another view
Focusing only on receiving might lead to dependency rather than mutual growth.
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