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I loved you in the morning, our kisses deep and warm, Your hair upon the pillow like a sleepy golden storm, Yes many loved before us, I know that we are not new, In city and in forest they smiled like me and you, But let's not talk of love or chains and things we can't untie, your eyes are soft with sorrow, Hey, that's no way to say goodbye.

Leonard Cohen#19

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker acknowledges past loves and the universality of human connection, urging a gentle goodbye despite sorrow.
In plain terms
Love is common, but this ending should be handled with care.
What can you take from it?
End relationships with kindness rather than heavy talk.

Where it applies

  • breakups
  • parting ways
  • reflecting on relationships

Putting it to work

  • focus on the moment
  • avoid blame during goodbyes

Questions to consider

  • How do you say goodbye without guilt?
  • What makes a farewell gentle?

Another view

The quote romanticizes sorrow as a reason to avoid deep conversation.

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