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What does it mean?
In times of chaos, relationships shift between harming and helping depending on necessity and ability.
In plain terms
In the end, I will hurt or help you based on what is needed or possible.
What can you take from it?
Be ready for relationships to change between good and bad in crises.

Where it applies

  • disaster
  • breakups
  • wars

Putting it to work

  • setting boundaries
  • accepting change

Questions to consider

  • How do you act in a crisis?
  • Is love enough in hard times?

Another view

It frames relationships as conditional rather than committed.

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