In America you can ease into middle age with the accoutrements of adolescence still prominent and suffer relatively minor embarrassment: okay, so the guy's still got his sideburns and rod and beer and beergut and wife and three kids and a duplex and never grew up. So what? You're not supposed to grow up in America. You're supposed to consume. But in Britain it seems there is some ideal, no, some dry river one is expected to ford, so you can enter that sedate bubble where you raise a family, contributing in your small way to your society and keep your mouth shut. Until you get old, that is, when you can become an 'eccentric' - do and say outrageous things, naughty things, because it's expected of you, you've crossed to the other mirror of the telescope of childhood.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- America encourages eternal adolescence and consumption, while Britain expects maturity and quiet contribution until old age.
- In plain terms
- America lets you stay young; Britain expects you to grow up then loosen up later.
- What can you take from it?
- Culture shapes when and how you're allowed to mature.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What does growing up mean to you?
- Where do you fit?
Another view
Not all Americans stay youthful or Britons mature quietly.
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