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What does it mean?
People evolve over time but often fail to communicate these changes to those around them.
In plain terms
People change their minds without telling others.
What can you take from it?
Regularly check in with friends about how they are doing.

Where it applies

  • breakups
  • career shifts
  • new lifestyles

Putting it to work

  • have direct conversations
  • update your network
  • accept ambiguity

Questions to consider

  • How do you know when someone has changed?
  • Do you feel guilty for not telling people you changed?

Another view

Sometimes people change internally without realizing it or needing to announce it.

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