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What does it mean?
Forgiveness is described as accepting the past as unchangeable rather than hoping for different outcomes.
In plain terms
To forgive is to stop wishing the past were better.
What can you take from it?
Forgiveness requires accepting the past is fixed.

Where it applies

  • personal growth
  • healing
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • let go of past regrets
  • accept what happened

Questions to consider

  • How do you make peace with the past?
  • Is hope always useful?

Another view

This view ignores the possibility of making amends.

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