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What does it mean?
The speaker feels they have lost their edge and no longer trust themselves to risk or fail.
In plain terms
They feel lost and no longer trust their abilities.
What can you take from it?
Trust requires an edge that can be lost.

Where it applies

  • career change
  • exile
  • midlife

Putting it to work

  • rebuild confidence
  • identify edge

Questions to consider

  • What have you lost?
  • Do you trust yourself?

Another view

This view denies that risk is necessary for growth.

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