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What does it mean?
Friends and enemies may appear similar until violence erupts.
In plain terms
Friends and enemies look alike until one shoots the other.
What can you take from it?
Don't trust appearances; danger can come from anyone.

Where it applies

  • wartime
  • hostile environments
  • negotiations

Putting it to work

  • stay alert
  • assess risks

Questions to consider

  • How do you spot real threats?
  • When do friends become foes?

Another view

Trusting no one can isolate you unnecessarily.

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