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What does it mean?
The dead cannot harm you directly only the memories of their passing may hurt.
In plain terms
Dead people cannot hurt you except through reminders of death.
What can you take from it?
Face the reality of death without fear.

Where it applies

  • mourning
  • philosophical reflection
  • end of life care

Putting it to work

  • facing mortality
  • processing grief
  • overcoming fear

Questions to consider

  • What makes you fear death?
  • How do you remember the dead?

Another view

Fear of death is often irrational but deeply human.

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