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What does it mean?
Creating life is a profound act that balances birth with the inevitability of death and suffering.
In plain terms
Making a life brings both birth and death into the world.
What can you take from it?
Parenthood carries immense weight.

Where it applies

  • pregnancy
  • planning a family
  • discussing ethics

Putting it to work

  • consider implications of parenthood
  • prepare for challenges

Questions to consider

  • What are the costs of creating life?
  • How do you view the balance of life and death?

Another view

It frames birth primarily through death which may be overly pessimistic.

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