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What does it mean?
Having children fundamentally alters a parent's identity regardless of the child's outcome.
In plain terms
Children change you no matter what happens.
What can you take from it?
Parenthood transforms you.

Where it applies

  • becoming a parent
  • raising children
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • embrace change
  • expect transformation
  • value growth

Questions to consider

  • How has parenting changed you?
  • What transformations do you expect from family?

Another view

Not everyone who becomes a parent feels changed in a significant way.

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