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What does it mean?
Reputation is external perception while honor is internal integrity and self-knowledge.
In plain terms
Reputation is what others think; honor is what you know.
What can you take from it?
Value integrity over public perception.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • conflict
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • maintaining integrity
  • ignoring gossip

Questions to consider

  • What matters more to you?
  • Do you act with integrity?

Another view

Reputation often matters in social interactions.

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