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What does it mean?
A man should practice self‑restraint as a duty.
In plain terms
Self‑control is a responsibility.
What can you take from it?
Exercise discipline.

Where it applies

  • temptations
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • set personal limits

Questions to consider

  • What are the limits of self‑restraint?
  • When is flexibility better?

Another view

Strict restraint can suppress healthy expression.

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