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What does it mean?
Intimacy does not grant a right to demand information; privacy remains even in close relationships.
In plain terms
Even if you know someone well, you cannot ask them things they do not want to share.
What can you take from it?
Respect boundaries regardless of how close you are.

Where it applies

  • friendships
  • romantic relationships
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • wait for voluntary sharing
  • avoid prying

Questions to consider

  • What information is off-limits even to partners?
  • How do you handle curiosity about a friend's private life?

Another view

Sometimes transparency is necessary for deep trust.

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