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What does it mean?
Trying to please others often involves deceiving them.
In plain terms
Pleasing can be a form of deception.
What can you take from it?
Be authentic rather than seeking approval.

Where it applies

  • social media
  • workplace politics

Putting it to work

  • set clear boundaries
  • express true feelings

Questions to consider

  • Do you compromise truth to please?
  • What costs does this have?

Another view

Sometimes politeness requires minor white lies.

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